Daddy's Polvoron: Love Wrapped One Piece at a Time

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Daddy's Polvoron: Love Wrapped One Piece at a Time

by Eugenia C. Martin

 

Whenever I think of my father, I remember the aroma of sinangag na harina (toasted flour).

Long before he became a husband and a father, Daddy grew up in Manila with his aunt's family, whose livelihood was making and selling homemade polvoron. It was more than a sweet treat. It became one of my father's earliest classrooms, where he learned the value of hard work, craftsmanship, entrepreneurship, and building meaningful relationships—values he would later pass on to our family. Everyone had a role, and that's where he learned the craft that he would one day pass on to me.

Years later, when we decided to make homemade polvoron as a small family business, Daddy became my patient teacher.

Before we even touched the ingredients, he had one instruction. "Wash your hands first."

He was strict about cleanliness. Every bowl, spoon, tray, and the special metal polvoron mold had to be thoroughly washed and dried. At the time, I thought he was simply being meticulous. Looking back, I realize he was teaching me that respect for the people who would eat our food began long before the first ingredient was mixed.

Making polvoron required patience. Daddy carefully toasted the flour until it reached the perfect golden color. Then he mixed it with powdered milk, sugar, and butter. My favorite part was watching him use the metal polvoron mold. He would fill it carefully, press it gently, and release each piece with steady hands, trying not to let it crack or crumble. 

 

Then came the wrapping. Each polvoron was first wrapped in colorful papel de Hapon, or with clear or colored cellophane, with both ends neatly twisted. Rows of beautifully wrapped polvoron soon filled the table, each one looking like a tiny gift.

Daddy believed presentation mattered. "Dapat buo, maganda ang balot," he would often remind me.

One of my favorite memories came years later, when our own children were growing up. We decided to make homemade polvoron as a small family business, just as Lolo Daddy had taught me. Before I could finish wrapping each piece in papel de Hapon and cellophane, little hands had already found the tray. "Isa lang, Mommy." One piece became two. Then another. Soon, the children were happily eating the freshly made polvoron, their faces covered with sweet crumbs. We could only laugh as we watched them enjoy every bite. By the time I returned with more wrappers, nearly half of the batch had already disappeared into happy little mouths. Instead of selling everything we had prepared, I often managed to sell only half. Today, I smile because that became treasured family memories. I only wish I had captured those moments in photographs—the crumbs on their faces, the sparkle in their eyes, and the simple joy of being together. But perhaps some of life's sweetest memories are meant to be kept not in albums, but in our hearts.

A recipe Daddy learned as a teenage boy in Manila had become a tradition shared with his grandchildren.

Looking back, I realize Daddy wasn't simply teaching me how to make polvoron.

He was teaching me to work with care, to value honest labor, and to do even the simplest task with excellence.

Whenever I see homemade polvoron wrapped in papel de Hapon and cellophane, I don't just remember a favorite childhood treat.

I remember my father.

Patiently molding each piece.

Carefully wrapping every one.

Quietly showing us that love is not always spoken.

Sometimes, it is handmade.

 

 

 

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Eugenia C. Martin (Ms. Eugene) is a Registered Guidance Counselor, Licensed Professional Teacher, wife, mother, songwriter, gardener, traveler, and home cook. Her life's lessons have come from many classrooms—the school, the counseling room, her parents' kitchen, the family garden, and the backyard shoe-making business where she first learned the values of perseverance, entrepreneurship, and community. Through her writing, she reflects on mental health, parenting, education, relationships, faith, music, gardening, and the journeys that continue to shape her understanding of people and life.